Changing perceptions

In the past, when I heard the word "hospice" (usually in a whisper), I immediately thought, "Oh no, this person only has a short amount of time."

However, I recently attended a meeting where I learned about many wonderful services our local Hospice offers for those who have been diagnosed with a terminal/life-threatening illness.  In some cases, Hospice services can span several years, in addition to the end of life comfort and care they are known for.

A new term Palliative Care was also discussed.   Palliative Care?  What's that?  It's a tough word to pronounce, what with all the "ll's" and double vowels! 

 The World Health Organization defines Palliative Care as:

An approach that improves the quality of life of patients and their families facing the problem associated with life-threatening illness, through the prevention and relief of suffering by means of early identification and impeccable assessment and treatment of pain and other problems, physical, psychosocial and spiritual. Palliative care:

• provides relief from pain and other distressing symptoms;
• affirms life and regards dying as a normal process;
• intends neither to hasten or postpone death;
• integrates the psychological and spiritual aspects of patient care;
• offers a support system to help patients live as actively as possible until death;
• offers a support system to help the family cope during the patients illness and in their own bereavement;
• uses a team approach to address the needs of patients and their families, including bereavement counselling, if indicated;
• will enhance quality of life, and may also positively influence the course of illness;
• is applicable early in the course of illness, in conjunction with other therapies that are intended to prolong life, such as chemotherapy or radiation therapy, and includes those investigations needed to better understand and manage distressing clinical complications.

In short, Palliative Care = Comfort Care.

Integrative (Complementary) Medicine was introduced.  Here's the WHO definition of Traditional and Complementary Medicine:

*  Traditional medicine

Traditional medicine is the sum total of the knowledge, skills, and practices based on the theories, beliefs, and experiences indigenous to different cultures, whether explicable or not, used in the maintenance of health as well as in the prevention, diagnosis, improvement or treatment of physical and mental illness.

*  Complementary/alternative medicine (CAM)

The terms "complementary medicine" or "alternative medicine" are used inter-changeably with traditional medicine in some countries. They refer to a broad set of health care practices that are not part of that country's own tradition and are not integrated into the dominant health care system.

IM/CAM combines a variety of complementary principles and practices with conventional medicine.  It employs the best of all medical modalities, focusing on mind, body, spirit and emotions.  Integrative Medicine treats the whole person and reaffirms the practitioner-patient relationship and caring presence.   Such methods include:

*  Acupuncture              *  Aromatherapy              *  Biofeedback              *  Cupping

*  Energy Medicine (Therapeutic Touch, Healing Touch & Reiki, Trigger Point Therapy, Conscious Breathwork, Guided Imagery, Mind/Body Practices for Relaxation)

The speakers told several patient success stories, not that the person was cured of their illness, but that they experienced less pain and were able to enjoy their time to the fullest.

A Reiki Master shared what she does to help patients that she sees in the clinic or their homes and also told us about The Five Reiki Principles:

Perhaps with more education, people's perceptions of Hospice will change, and the care and  services each organization offers will be welcomed sooner.

For more information on how A Stress-Less Transition, LLC can help you or an older adult, please visit our website.

Super Hero!

                       “Look!  Up in the sky! 

                             “It’s a bird!”

                             “It’s a plane!”

                             “No, it’s a Senior Move Manager!”

                             “A what??”

                             “A Senior Move Manager!”

Disguised as a mild-mannered business owner, a Senior Move Manager can:

• Move mom into Memory Care in a single day!
• Disperse 30 years of Dad’s accumulations!
• Calm the most overwhelmed adult child!
• Fight the never-ending battle for TRUTH, JUSTICE and Older Adults!
• And boldly go where no other dare …  Granny’s underwear drawer!

Senior Move Managers are professionals that assist older adults and their families with the emotional and physical aspects of a later-in-life transition  (i.e. aging in place, downsizing, moving to an assisted living facility or when a loved one passes away).

But in real life, we are more like SUPER HEROES and come to the rescue when:

  *  Older adults & family are overwhelmed and don’t know where to begin

  *  Family lives out of the area and doesn't know the local resources.  

  *  A crisis situation has occured like being discharged from the hospital or rehab earlier than expected. 

  *  Dementia has progressed to the point where a person can't live at home anymore.  

  *  There is no family to help.

A Senior Move Manager can do as much or as little as needed such as:

• Organize, sort and downsize to prepare for a move
• Creating customized floor plans – recommending just what will fit
• Disperse unwanted items (to family, to sell, to donate and yes, to the trash)
• Discover forgotten things that might have sentimental or monetary value
• Pack, Move, Set-up new residence
• De-clutter existing space for safer and easier access
• Clear out a home to be sold or renovated
• Recommend related services such as cleaning, junk removal, shredding, home health, attorneys, realtors, estate sale and appraisal professionals, etc
• Facilitate into/out of state move

Why work with Senior Move Manager:

• Can help reduce the stress for the older adult & family by taking care of all the details and knowing who to call
• Neutral third party who guides older adults through the decision-making process about their things. 
• Can have difficult conversation about value of things
• Is patient, compassionate, and respectful when helping older adults and families
• Does what the older adult can’t do, doesn’t want to do or doesn’t have time to do
• Have vetted service providers to ensure licensed, bonded, good track record

Most importantly….by adding a Senior Move Manager to the team, the family can focus on needs of their loved one.

To find a Super Hero in your area, visit the 

National Association of Senior Move Managers

Nobody's buying. Can't donate it. Now what?

One of the most difficult parts of being a Senior Move Manager is telling a client (or their family) that their isn't much interest in their old furniture and heirlooms. 

A dining room set may have been the first pieces of 'good' furniture a couple purchased when they got married.  And they paid a lot of money for it.  

In today's world, big box furniture stores offer whole houses of furniture for mere pennies.  And people don't want to pay a lot of money for second hand furniture.

Current generations are more casual and people don't want to handwash china or polish silver.  Smaller homes don't accommodate china hutches, pianos or grandfather clocks.

Trying to sell items on consignment is challenging.  Many shops only want newer items.  Charitable organizations have become very selective about the items they will take.  

A recent article about the market for used furniture and collectibles offers some additional insight.    

For more information on how A Stress-Less Transition, LLC can help you or an older adult, please visit our website.

Estate Planning - it's not just for the old or rich!!

The term "Estate Planning" is often times synonymous with parents, grandparents, families and rich people. 

Below is a great article that explains the importance of three estate planning documents young adults should have when they turn 18.

http://www.estateplanning.com/estate-planning-strategies-for-college-aged-child/

OCTOBER 25, 2013   ESTATE PLANNING

Three Vital Estate Planning Strategies for Your College-Aged Child

Graduating from high school and preparing for college is a very exciting time in a young adult’s life. With all the preparation that is necessary, most young adults overlook one of the most important things they should do upon turning age 18: estate planning. While most 18-year-olds do not have large estates or families to plan for, there are three estate planning documents that every 18-year-old needs.
 
1. Springing Power of Attorney
The first necessary part of a young adult’s plan is a springing power of attorney. Through a springing power of attorney, a person designates someone to make business and financial decisions if he or she becomes incapacitated. Importantly, the power of attorney does not “spring” into action until the person who drafted it becomes incapacitated.
 
2. Health Care Power of Attorney
Also necessary to a young person’s estate plan is a Health Care Power of Attorney. This document names a person to make medical decisions if the individual is unable to make these decisions. It will be the agent’s responsibility to work with doctors and various other health care providers to try to provide the incapacitated with the care that he or she would have wanted
 
3. HIPPA Release
A third vital part of your adult child’s estate plan should be a Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act (“HIPPA”) release. By signing a HIPPA release, a patient agrees that, in the event medical care is needed, medical personal may release information about his or her location and condition to specified individuals. Without such a release, parents may face obstacles to even determine whether their child has been admitted to the hospital.