And for lots of folks, these visits only happen once a year (or less). Sure they probably talk on the phone frequently (or occasionally), but there's nothing like seeing them in person and spending time together.
For many, these annual visits aren't all "Norman Rockwell". While Mom or Dad may sound good on the phone (or Skype), in reality, they may be struggling; seeing first hand that all really is not well. Driving skills might not be as sharp as they once were. Clutter and disorganization may be creating safety issues. The house or yard might not be as meticulously kept as in the past. Past Due notices and stacks of papers/bills are scattered about.
Some might think, "He/She hasn't had an car accident, no need for me to discuss this now". Others might assume that "Mom/Dad has been pretty good on the computer, I doubt there's any issue." Someone else might say, "Dad's managed the medicines for both of them, I'm sure he's still got it under control."
Yes, it can be awkward....the children having "the talk" with their parents. But it doesn't have to be. Here is a wonderful website with many great tips and suggestions for "having the conversation":
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